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Dec
31

Through a roundabout way (one blog led to another…) I came across The Complete Woman blog today.

I like the content and will be following it going forward. Take a look at it.

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Dec
31

thenewmegraphic

This is my resolution every year and I do a middlin’ job of it every year. Every day is a new chance, so I always get back up and try again.

For 2009 I will post weekly progress on Monday.

M pledge:

I will do something every week with 3 main areas of focus:

Total goal: lose some of that blob around the waist. I hope to replace some of the fat with muscle so I’m not hooked on a specific weight goal.

Start date: I can actually say I started on Dec 15 (so I have a head start for 2009)

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Dec
30

tuesdaythingers

Today’s question: Here is a list of the main areas of Library Thing:
1. Home (http://www.librarything.com/, before you log in)
2. Home (once you log in, contains Your Home, Your Profile, Connections, Recommendations, Reviews, Statistics, Clouds, Gallery, Memes)
3. Profile (Recent activity, tags, comments, members with your books)
4. Your Library
5. Your Tags
6. Add Books
7. Talk
8. Groups
9. Local
10. Search
11. Zeitgeist (Stats, Top Lists)
12. Tools (Widgets, Store)
13. Blog

What area are you most familiar with? What area is your favorite? What area are you curious about? Are there any that you have not really looked at?

I joined in October and got really serious just this month. I know the Add Books and Your Library sections pretty well. Today I found the Talk and Groups areas. Then I found the Group for the 999 Challenge and spent another 30 minutes creating my post with my list for 9 books in 9 areas in 09. The Touchstones feature is great, it adds the LibraryThing link to the book so quickly! After that I updated my library so now my Touchstones on my post have a green check mark to show which books I own. That way I know which ones I’ll need to borrow or acquire some other way.

I haven’t done much with reviews or tags. I started doing more with tags today and will plug in some reviews as I go through my list.

Today my favorite would be the Groups area. My favorite discovery for the day is under Home  |  Statistics | Series Coverage. I already knew most of this since it takes effort to collect all in a series and read them in order. But I discovered that Darkness at Noon by Arthur Koestler is the second of a trilogy so now I have two more books on my To Be Read list.

There is still a lot on Home and Recommendations that I haven’t looked at yet. Some day. But right now I need to get back to reading!

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Dec
29

12-days

This came up for discussion in the house today. When I was growing up and every year since then I’ve put the tree and decorations up on the weekend after Thanksgiving. It gives Thanksgiving room to be celebrated and then gets the Christmas season started early enough to have time to enjoy all that effort put into decorating.

Then, the day after Christmas we take it all down. At least, until this year. I know I’ve heard it before, but this year it finally sunk in that the 12 Days of Christmas start on Christmas Day and end on Epiphany (Jan 6). I kind of like that. The day after Christmas always feel like a let down, we build up to the day and then it’s just over, time to pack everything away and be done.

I made an unconscious decision to leave the tree and decorations up until Epiphany. I forgot to share this with Anthony, so this morning when I got up the tree was unplugged, the curtains were closed, and I suspected dismantling was next. I quickly shared my thoughts on the Twelve Days of Christmas and leaving the lights on and decorations up until the evening of Jan 5. He thought that was a great idea so we opened the curtains and plugged the tree back in! It will all come down by Jan 6. but we will enjoy the next few days.

epiphany

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Dec
23

nightstand

Wow, a month has gone by already.

What’s on my shelf for the next month? 

Curate of Glaston, The

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk

Hamlet (The New Folger Library Shakespeare) as part of the Classics Bookclub at 5 Minutes for Books. That can be found in Project Gutenberg and today we got a copy downloaded onto the Kindle (for free!) so I’ll be reading it that way.

I am also going to read through all 4 gospels again. I’m about 1/2 way through Matthew already this week. And continuing Mere Christianity and rereading Home to Holly Springs (see below).
 

Below are the books I included on my list last month.

Mere Christianity is part of Tim Challies reading the classics. That has gone well but I’m not finished so I don’t have a review up yet.

I did read Little Britches: Father and I Were Ranchers by Ralph Moody and really enjoyed it. Here is my overview. I highly recommend it for adults and teens.

I read Artisan Bread in Five Minutes a Day: The Discovery That Revolutionizes Home Baking and we tried some of the bread. It was good but I just don’t think we’re the home made bread kind. At least we know where to look when we are ready to try again.

I read Home to Holly Springs (Father Tim, Book 1) once. I will read it again before the book club meeting in January.

I also read A Christmas Carol along with 5 Minutes for Books Classics Bookshelf.

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Dec
21

Way back in September I signed up for the Fall Into Reading challenge. My post is here.  

It is time to see how I did with my goals.

First – the books I listed in my post and progress made with them.

Something by Elizabeth Goudge – 4 books

Battling Unbelief by John Piper

What Happens When Women Say Yes to God by Lysa Terkeurst with Proverbs 31 Ministries

The 7 Hardest Things God Asks a Woman to Do by Kathie Reimer and Lisa Whittle – I have read the first chapter and this is another winner.

The Iliad – way too busy to tackle this. Maybe some other year.

 

Now – books I didn’t know about in September but that I have read and reviewed since.

Little Britches by Ralph Moody and The Place to Be by Roger Mudd

The Instinct to Heal

Anticancer

Antsy Does Time

Everlost

The Grand Weaver by Ravi Zacharias

Plus, I have read (but not reviewed yet) Home to Holly Springs by Jan Karon for our new book club starting up in January.

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Dec
19

I found this blog entry at C J Mahaney’s blog. It raises some good questions that my flesh doesn’t want to answer.

At the beach retreat my prayer request was to find balance and not feel like I have to do everything. The woman praying for me shared this advice – turn all your priorities over to God and He will let you know which ones are important. I didn’t reveal this to all the women sitting in that room, but the very first thought that crossed my mind was that He might not want the same things I want to do. Which of course is why I wrote that prayer request. My real prayer request is to want the same things He wants, but as Tozer says in The Pursuit of God - “Father, I want to know thee, but my cowardly heart fears to give up its toys. I cannot part with them without inward bleeding…”

Today I was reading the articles in the January Table Talk. In an article by Burk Parsons on resolutions I was struck by his comment that “while every Christian would respond by saying, ‘Well, of course we must depend on God for all things,’ most Christians have been sold the world’s bill of goods. They think that once they become dependent on God, then they will have immediate strength.” I hate resembling “most Christians” when mentioned in an article like this.

I know I struggle with real discipline. It’s easier to pray about something and then jump right back into action. The problem with getting by on my own strength when things are good is that I am so easily thrown off balance the minute things look a little shaky.  

Back to that blog entry by C J Mahaney. I want to be diligent, faithful, and fruitful. Right now I’m much better at being busy. The thought of praying for a more fruitful life fills me with excitement and dread. The excitement because that’s what I was made for. The dread because my flesh struggles to believe God and to trust Him. What if it hurts? What if it’s hard? What if it changes the comfortable life I have right now? … What am I missing by settling for what I have right now?

A later blog entry by C J Mahaney gets right to the point, our sin. I repent of my pride, my fear of others, my laziness, my pleasure-seeking, and my escapism. I’ve seen all of those just today. I must restructure my desk and my day so that it is much harder to skip the time alone with God each morning. Just committing to do it won’t work, I’ve tried that many times before.

From another blog entry in this series:

Let our confidence be uniform. In all thy ways acknowledge him (Proverbs 3:6). Take one step at a time, every step under divine warrant and direction. Ever plan for yourself in simple dependence on God. It is nothing less than self-idolatry to conceive that we can carry on even the ordinary matters of the day without his counsel. 

He loves to be consulted. Therefore take all thy difficulties to be resolved by him. Be in the habit of going to him in the first place—before self-will, self-pleasing, self-wisdom, human friends, convenience, expediency. Before any of these have been consulted go to God at once. Consider no circumstances too clear to need his direction. 

In all thy ways, small as well as great; in all thy concerns, personal or relative, temporal or eternal, let him be supreme.
 
-Charles Bridges (1794–1869), from A Commentary on Proverbs (Banner of Truth, 1846/1968) pp. 24–25.

C J Mahaney gives some steps in yet another blog entry (his are much shorter and more manageable than mine, obviously).

Define my God-given roles. I base this on where has God placed me and where am I positioned to serve others?

  1. Christian
  2. wife
  3. aunt, daughter, sister, friend
  4. employee

Then I should determine specific, theologically informed goals.

Then I can transfer these goals into my schedule. More likely, I can weed out the time-fillers and time-wasters that are keeping me away from my goals right now. Those are the toys that I am afraid will hurt to let go of.

 

All of the C J Mahaney articles in order:

Are You Busy?

Confessions of a Busy Procrastinator

The Procrastinator Within

Just Do It

In All Thy Ways

The Sluggard

Time Redeemed

Roles, Goals, Scheduling

Roles (Part 1)

Roles (Part 2)

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Dec
19

You can read it online here.

You can find the starter questions at 5MinutesforBooks

The Link to other reviews can be found here:

 

It has been years since I’ve read this story. I havee seen a few versions of the movie since then. The description of the cold is so well done that I can see and feel it (the heat’s running here which is a blessing). I thought the nephew’s description of Christmas was worth noting.

“There are many things from which I might have derived good, by which I have not profited, I dare say,” returned the nephew.  “Christmas among the rest.  But I am sure I have always thought of Christmas time, when it has come round — apart from the veneration due to its sacred name and origin, if anything belonging to it can be apart from that — as a good time: a kind, forgiving, charitable, pleasant time: the only time I know of, in the long calendar of the year, when men and women seem by one consent to open their shut-up hearts freely, and to think of people below them as if they really were fellow-passengers to the grave, and not another race of creatures bound on other journeys.  And therefore, uncle, though it has never put a scrap of gold or silver in my pocket, I believe that it has done me good, and will do me good; and I say, God bless it!”

I have always loved the way Scrooge excused away the spector of Marley in spite of what he sees:

“Why do you doubt your senses?”

“Because,” said Scrooge, “a little thing affects them. A slight disorder of the stomach makes them cheats.  You may be an undigested bit of beef, a blot of mustard, a crumb of cheese, a fragment of an underdone potato.  There’s more of gravy than of grave about you, whatever you are!”

Marley and the description of the spirits Scrooge sees as Marley is leaving do a great job of explaining our purpose and why anything less than that is a failure.

The misery with them all was, clearly, that they sought to interfere, for good, in human matters, and had lost the power for ever.

The second section is so sad, to see how Scrooge was and how he changed and lost so much as he became the man he is now, seeking Gain at the expense of everything else.

Christmas Present appears in section 3. Scrooge’s attitude has changed and he’s teachable now. He sees Bob Cratchit’s family and has a chance to see what they think of him. He sees people all over who celebrate Christmas, no matter how poor or how far from home. Then he goes to his nephew’s and gets caught up in the fun and laughter of the party. As the time ends he meets Want and Ignorance.

Section 4 is about the Ghost of Christas Yet To Come. I haven’t read the story in a long time and haven’t even seen a movie version in a number of years. But I remember Scrooge being more stubborn. I prefer this version, teachable and desiring to change.

“Ghost of the Future!” he exclaimed, “I fear you more than any spectre I have seen. But as I know your purpose is to do me good, and as I hope to live to be another man from what I was, I am prepared to bear you company, and do it with a thankful heart. Will you not speak to me?

We see that Tiny Tim dies and Scrooge learns that when he dies no one mourns him and those whose debt he holds rejoice at his death.

In stave 5 he wakes up in his own bed. I have always loved this part and my best memories of the movie versions are how they portray this changed man with a second chance at life. 

Really, for a man who had been out of practice for so many years, it was a splendid laugh, a most illustrious laugh.  The father of a long, long line of brilliant laughs.

It took me two weeks to make it all the way through this short story, but I’m glad I read it again. It is a wonderful way to learn and encourage the Christmas spirit.

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Dec
15

 

 

We present…. Our Ladder Tree – no needles and room for all the presents!

Still looks like a tree from outside

 

 

The Mantle

 

 

Refreshments!

 

Ingredients:

  • 2 sticks margarine or butter (I use unsalted butter)
  • 1/2 cup of powdered sugar
  • 2 cups of all-purpose flour
  • 1/2 teaspoon of vanilla
  • 1 cup of pecans; chopped fine (by my handy-dandy Pampered Chef chopper)

 Directions:

  1. Cream margarine and sugar together
  2. Add other ingredients
  3. Mix well and form into balls
  4. Place on ungreased baking sheet and bake at 350 for 20 minutes
  5. Let cool and then roll in powdered sugar
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Dec
13

 

I picked this up at a women’s conference of our denomination. The speaker was also from Proverbs 31 Ministries and she did such a great job I wanted to check out some of the books.

This one had an irrisistible title. I know I should and I want to and this sounds like great encouragement to increase that desire and fight the battle. 

The book starts out with a great story of a time when God asked her to do something that seemed really hard without any clear benefit. She said yes, of course, and great things happened. She addresses how to hear God’s voice to know what to say yes to. Her five questions are very good. I especially like number 3. I have had that happen so many times and it is great reassurance that He really is talking to me.

  1. Does what I’m hearing line up with Scripture?
  2. Is it consistent with God’s character
  3. Is it being confirmed through messges I’m hearing at church or studying in my quiet times.
  4. Is it beyond me?
  5. Would it please God?

Then she points out that we must pray to hear His voice. She mentions praying for desire, discipline, discernment, direction, and delight in her relationship with Him. “God wants us to live in expectation of hearing from Him.” (p 42)

Next she talks about how obedience will always result in good. We should be much more worried about what our disobedience will cause us to miss. The more we obey, the more we’ll see him and trust him and then obedience will be a delight, not just a discipline.

In one chapter she talks about how being obedient will cause us to be threatening to others, who will then try to tear us down. She quotes Rick Warren quoting John Bunyan “If my life is fruitless, it doesn’t matter who praises me, and if my life is fruitful, it doesn’t matter who criticizes me.”

She points out that condemnation leaves us feeling hopeless and worthless while conviction invites us to make positive changes in our lives. We must learn the difference and ignore/resist the one while responding to the other. She goes on to talk about the choice to worry or worship.

Each chapter has another truth that is worth meditating on for a week. In chapter six she discusses that God is our Provider. How can He be our ultimate provider if we are never weak or in need? Yet more reason to trust Him and rejoice in His work at all times.

Through each chapter she points back to Scripture and to examples from the Bible. The book meets her own test (see the 5 questions). 

Some points about our call to obedience:

  • our call to obedience may challenge our pride
  • God uses our experiences to equip us for our calling
  • our obedience may inspire others to respond

I have found a treasure in What Happens When Women Say Yes to God: Experiencing Life in Extraordinary Ways. This is a book that I will return to again and will meditate on much.

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