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What I did with my long weekend

A three day weekend is a great thing. And given that all my weekends seem to be booked lately, this was no exception.

I got up Saturday and drove off to the business park to run in my 6K. I did pretty well, coming in at about 41 minutes. Then I came home to find the rest of the folks in the house just getting up.

I doled out some assignments which resulted in nephew #2 mowing the yard while hubby edged and trimmed. Nephew #1 worked hard at … eating breakfast.

Then, I headed off to a baby shower at the Duke Mansion. Hubby took both nephews to Home Depot and had them help load some paver stones into the truck. Then, he dropped them off at a friends which means he had to unload the truck alone (not good planning) and drive some friends down to the hospital for visitation.

I got back from the shower and DH got back from the hospital in time to go to our friends’ for dinner. Yummy food and great company. Home in time for showers and bed.

Sunday started with church. Then lunch, change clothes, grocery shopping, and back over to my friend’s house to whip up a dish for the cul-de-sac party that night. DH spent most of the afternoon at the hospital again. Off to choir practice and prayer meeting, then back to eat the dregs left from the cul-de-sac party. Home in time for showers and bed.

Monday – need to catch up on laundry – the boys didn’t bring that many changes of clothes and with the mowing, etc, they’ve gone through most of it. While the boys were sleeping in, DH and I ran to Lowe’s to get sand and paver stones – seems we’re serious about the little yard project. Since the stones from Saturday are in my spot in the garage, we better get this done fast – I am paying a lot for that garage and I want my car in it!

He and I and a very nice assistant at Lowe’s got lots of paver stones loaded into the truck. Then we came home and started preparing the ground around the a/c units. The boys finally got up (after much prodding) so we assigned them the duty of emptying the stones out of the truck. That was a joyful task!

Then I ran off for more tools and lunch. Somehow after lunch the boys disappeared so DH and I kept working. I finally had to quit, make sure the boys had packed and cleaned their room, showered (finally), put the 3rd load in to wash, and drove the 1.5 hours to get the boys home. Hung around for a birthday party that was really burnt hamburgers and a very cool birthday cake. Then drove back home to find DH had made phenomenal progress while I was gone. We’re over 1/2 way there with this little project. Good thing we only do one of these every few years.

I’ll post pictures (before, during, and after) in another day or two. Today, I’ve finished 2 more loads of laundry, put clean sheets on the bed for Mom who comes home tonight, and soon I need to work through this stack of receipts on my desk.

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Fearless – Review

Fearless by Max Lucado is my latest Thomas Nelson Book Review Bloggers pick.

Review resources are available here.

This is  a great book. Pastor Lucado brings our fears out into the light. He discusses our fears of insignificance, parenting failures, illness, financial disaster, worst-case scenarios, the evils of this world, and many more. For each, he reminds us gently but seriously how to take our fears to Jesus and respond in faith. He works humor and Scripture into a very serious topic. He recognizes the great space fear takes up in our lives, yet cuts it down to size in the light of the reality of God’s mercy.

About 8 years ago I was deep in the vice of fear and through resources like this and the grace of God I worked my way out of it. I need this book. It is a good reminder of very good truths, but we all suffer from spiritual amnesia when fear sets in.

The accompanying discussion guide is a good resource for private or group study of the concepts in the book, Scripture truths, and self-examination.

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Let Go – review

LetGo_80_140_Book.73.coverLet Go by Sheila Walsh is my latest Thomas Nelson Book Review Bloggers pick.

I read the first chapter and the question at the end of the chapter seemed to speak right to me. I think we all need to be reminded that God loves us, as we are, right now.

She continues with great news and deep questions through the whole book. She provides the good news of God’s grace through faith in Christ. Then she brings out into the open all the fears and burdens that women have. She does a good job of balancing between the very big and very hard issues and the daily and small items that we often think are somehow not part of the big plan. She brings out some serious hardcore sins and tragedies to make sure we understand that while it is very serious and painful it is also still within God’s sovereignty. She also does a good job of reminding us that the freedom that comes through God’s grace is also there for the fears or shame or frustrations that seem so small (at least to everyone else).

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Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society

I read this in July because a friend loaned it to me she was so insistent that I should read it. I had seen the name around for several months so it was on my TBR list but not near the top. What a wonderful book – I’m so glad I moved it up the list and read it. I went out and bought a copy of my own so I could reread it and lend it to family and friends. My mom has it right now, my aunt is next on the list to read it.

One thing I did was create a character list. Since it wasn’t the normal narrative format I had to focus a little harder on who was doing the talking by paying attention to who the letter was to and from. But I quickly got this habit down. I recently read The Painted Veil by Somerset Maugham and my complaint with that book was that he described each character in such detail that you didn’t have to form opinions about them, he provided them already formed. This book gave you room to get to know the characters by their actions and words and develop opinions in detail. I much prefer that. And the characters were consistent, no surprise character defects or anything forced to make the plot work.

I loved the relationship between Sophie, Sidney, and Juliet – even without letters from Sophie, you can tell what she is asking, telling, and wondering about – it’s clear they are all close and looking out for the best for each other.

I had to revise my view of Dawsey, for some reason I pictured him older than he obviously is. I loved his direct and shy way of communicating.

Questions from 5 Minutes for Books:

~Is this your first book of letters — fiction or non-fiction? If so, do you like this particular writing style? Why or why not?

I am sure I have read a book of letters before but it isn’t coming to mind. It can be difficult to pull off, causing difficulty keeping the characters straight and the timeline clear. But it can also be fun, like sneaking a peak at someone’s life.

~Do you think Guernsey would have been the same if the author had employed the typical fiction narrative? Would it have been better, or worse?

The format of letters was great. It could have been a good story in regular narrative, but this way worked so well, giving a sense of passing time and letting each voice come out.

~Who is your favorite character? Why?

I love Amelia – she is practical and wise and generous in how she sees others.

~How does the reading that brings the Society’s members together become more than an alibi? What do their literary choices say about each character?

Reading widens the world and provides not just an escape but growth and peace. They certainly needed all of that while under the occupation. They had limited options (unlike all of us) but still found their favorites that suited them. I also thought it very true that men who work with the land and live according to the seasons can be deep thinkers. I loved that Clovis found Wilfred Own and Wordsworth.

~In her last letter, Juliet says that she is …in a constant state of surprise these days. What do you think she means by that?

What I think this means: The war had closed a lot of people down, turning inward and staying safe. Juliet, just like the islanders, is finding new life and rediscovering emotions and the pleasures of growing close to people again. And after her misfires, she is learning what it is to truly love and be loved.

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